YOUR MARITAL HEALTH/THE MOST OFTEN ASKED QUESTION: WHY DOES SHE TALK LIKE THAT IN SEX?
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“Why does she talk like that in sex? She says things that just send chills through me. It’s not her talking. She seems possessed or something. It’s dirty talk. It’s a turn-off.”
ANSWER: One of my other patients once asked why her husband yawned so loudly. The answer to that question is the same as the answer to this one. We all express ourselves differently. The words that bother you so much are just expressive sounds. They mean nothing about you or her; they are reflexes just like any other. Such expression is arousing or exciting to some people, but if these words bother you, suggest the words you might like to hear. It will take some time, but such words might work their way into her’ ‘reflexive vocabulary.” Remember that the words are reflexes, not messages, and maybe you won’t be so bothered. It’s a compliment to you, really, that she feels comfortable and safe enough to let loose, to be free in her sexual reflex vocabulary.
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